A tough job, but someone's gotta do it

So, last night b was given instructions to do a few things. Although she had a good reason to not do some of it, some of the reason she was unable to complete it, was a lack of planning on her part, and also she failed to voice concerns about her ability to do some of it in time.

One of the things I've tried to instill in b, is for her to know that I'm open to any issues she has with instructions or tasks I give her. I always want her opinion, and her concerns. Ultimately the final decision is mine to make, however, I will always take her concerns into account when making decisions. b failed to voice her concerns about these instructions, and therefore, failed to complete any of the tasks given.

So, today, over the phone, she will be punished. And she will be taking pictures as well. The biggest thing I want her to learn, is to tell me if she cannot complete anything, or has worries she won't be able to.

So I will post again, after everything is done.

J

Aftermath and new beginnings

Today, I've had the chance to have a nice relaxing day due to the psycho weather here. SNOW DAY! Lmao. I have had to chance to chit chat with little b...

I laid out the instructions for her deep throat training. Its not too involved, but should be effective as long as she is diligent about it! It will take her about 15 or 20 minutes a night, and when we see some good improvement, I will move from her smaller cock shaped toy, to something a little bigger, and hopefully, I will be able to give her a "test" in the near future ;)!

I think that we have a good base for our roles, and sexual dynamic. Trust still needs some time to be built up, and we need to set up some starter rules for her to follow as far as the D/s side of things go, but she has agreed to be my sub/little girl officially! And she has decided to accept me as her Dom/Sir. Hopefully I live up to expectations and am qualified to meet the needs of my lil one. (what? Doms are allowed to be introspective and worry sometimes! Lol)

I received another requested photo of b just now. God, is a subby supposed to create such intense feelings of lust in her Dom? I don't know, I've never been so attracted to one particular person before! (lol I should be careful what I write, b reads here and I'll end up makin her head swell!) Lmao she sure makes my "head" swell!! :0 lol

b has another pic to do today, and every day for that matter as part of her training.

@hermione - thank you for the comment! And I did ask her, because the trust thing is still a work in progress, I didn't feel comfortable making that decision on my own. And although she said the decision was mine to make, regarding whether to post her pics or not, I felt and still feel she's not emotionally ready for that. I will post them some day. I want to be sure she is ready.

I have followers!!!!! Omg omg! How freakin kick ass is that?!

Ta Ta for now!

J

"Every saint has a past, and every sinner has a future"

- Oscar Wilde

Good morning! Good morning!

All I have to say is WOW. Even though I am drop dead tired today, and even though going to meet little b yesterday added a little over 3 hours of driving to my day, last night was one of the BEST experiences I've ever had, seriously! I'm still so unbelievably excited! Wow. Wow, wow, wow!

Lol, ok, so juicy details....

We met at a nice little irish pub, b was already waiting outside, in piggy tails, as instructed, with a nice top that shows her "assets" as instructed! Good Girl! Uh oh....no skirt... Lol

I commented on this right away, her answer..."I just don't like wearing skirts" lol, so even though she already knew, I informed her she had earned herself a good, bare bottom spanking. We had a couple of beers, and chatted for what seemed like an instant, but ended up being hours! At first, both of us a little nervous, the conversation stayed very vanilla. But after our confidence grew, we discussed our feelings, our past experiences, funny moments, all regarding D/s.

We both have a fine appreciation for sarcasm, which peppered the conversation, quite liberally, lol. We both expressed our love for hockey, and distaste for each others particular fave teams. Lol. Go Oilers!

As the night wore on, I decided it was time. So, b was sent to the bathroom, and emerged a little while later, with clips attached firmly to each nipple, under her bra.

We talked more, and after a little while, the discomfort was really starting to affect her. *wicked grins* lol, I LOVED seeing her gorgeous doe eyes pleading me to let her take them off as she dug her fingers into my hands.

After a little personal sadistic enjoyment of her predicament, I escorted her out to the car. She lifted her shirt and bra for me to remove the clips, which I of course did in a timely fashion, with no playing or flicking or tugging at all! ;) lol

We made our way back into the pub, and continued to talk, I brought up a few fun subjects that gave me the great opportunity to see her blush! And it was decided, she would accept to receive her punishment right then! So, off we went! She took her lickin like a trooper! I used my hand for about 5 minutes, when I realized she is a squirmer! Her hand was pinned behind her back, and I picked up the hairbrush.

Needless to say, it was a glorious evening!! I got to chat with her tonight. No regrets! Lol, yay me! I must have made at least a somewhat decent impression...

Found out, I got some nice sensitive spots with the hairbrush! But she also told me my hand hurt more! Yay me! So much more happened than what I've posted. So much deeper than just a couple beers and a spankin!

"Set your expectations high; find men and women whose integrity and values you respect; get their agreement on a course of action; and give them your ultimate trust."

?-  John Akers

Carpe diem

So, if work cooperates, today is the day. I wonder if b is as antsy and nervous as I am! Everything depends on how long this job today takes, and whether or not I get to stay close to home tonight, or, if they are going to send me away somewhere.

If the cookie crumbles the way I hope it does, I'll be back in Red Deer early enough to get ready, and head to Calgary.

Now, if everything works out.
We will be meeting at a little pub in the SW. b has a small list of instructions she has to follow (to kind of establish our roles early in the relationship, if that's what it ends up being!lol)
she is to wear a skirt no longer than knee length, no panties. A top that is a bit revealing(not too much, as she is quite "chesty" lol) and her hair is to be in pig tails.
I haven't told her this yet, but, she is to bring her small butt plug, and a couple clothes pins as well. When we have had the chance to chat for a little while, and maybe have a drink, she will be given a choice. I will send her to the bathroom, and when she returns, she is to either have the plug in, or the clamps securely placed on her nipples. If she chooses the clamps, my observation of her discomfort will dictate the length of time she is to wear them. However, if she chooses the plug...I told her that some time in the evening I will be making sure she followed her instructions. This means I will be checking to see she refrained from wearing panties. She has told me, she won't be wearing a skirt(this will mean she has a spanking coming!) so some time, I'm thinking at the end of the night, I will be undoing, and pulling her pants down to her knees. At this time, I will obviously be able to see if she chose to follow instruction and go without panties. Also, this is when I will remove the plug for her.

We have not decided if any punishment she earns will come tonight, or if we will refrain from play as this is our first meeting. If our feelings our mutual, and the desire to play takes us, I feel this will be the perfect time to give her a good, hard, bare bottom spanking. I will start with my hand, and if she's earned it, she may get more with the paddle style wooden hairbrush I have.

I have made the decision that b is not ready for me to post the pictures I have of her here. I want her to have the trust in me that I will not compromise her values or her anonymity. So I do apologize to all those who are looking forward to it, but perhaps in time...

"Character is doing the right thing when nobody's looking.  There are too many people who think that the only thing that's right is to get by, and the only thing that's wrong is to get caught."

  ~J.C. Watts

Time flies when...

Last night b and I had quite the experience! So, first of all, I received 2 wonderful topless pictures of her, and with those I came to realize a couple things. First of all, she is quite self conscious of her naked body, it took some great will power on her part to get up the nerve to actually hit send and give me those pics. Second, my little b has AMAZING tits! Holy crap! I nearly fell of my chair when I received the pictures! So, I will be posting one of those photos here in the near future, however, I am going to let her get used to the idea that although I will not compromise her anonymity, her beautiful naked feminine body will be exposed for all to see here. I need her trust that I will be careful in what I show, and what I don't, so I am going to wait a little while for this trust to develop before I post her beauty for all to see.

Speaking of trust...
Las night we had some fun over the phone! This was a night of many firsts. First time I heard b's pretty voice, first time I've seen her naked breasts, and the first time I heard her orgasm.

She was first given the choice on whether or not she wanted to agree to what I had in store. I did not tell her what I would have her do, only that she would have to trust me that I would not hurt or embarrass her. She agreed, and I gave her a list of instructions, and when she was ready, I would call.

b brought with her to her bedroom along with her phone, her vibe, her small butt plug, some lube, and a few clothes pins. When I phoned, b was directed to her knees, and over the following hour (which seemed like no time at all) she was instructed to use the variety of toys she laid out at my discretion. Before I called I had planned to bring her to the edge of orgasm, but to deny her the pleasure, and let her wait till our next chat to have release. However, I decided that the thing I wanted to teach her, wasn't so much that I wanted control of her pleasure(I do!) but instead I wanted to give her a chance to get a little more comfortable with experiencing pleasure in my presence and to enjoy giving me control over her body. she was audibly nervous, and felt a bit exposed, but slowly as the sensation of being on her knees for me, and experiencing the sensation of pleasure while under my direction. I was very pleased with her ability to follow instructions, and over that short hour, b came for me quite a few times! The sound of her excitement was too much for me to sit and listen, and I was able to bring myself to orgasm in short order as well! Although I felt the whole experience was very pleasing, and she more than exceeded my expectations, I do have one bit of criticism regarding the experience. This was partially my fault at not giving her the direction to do this, but I wanted to see if she would do it on her own. When we meet, one of her instructions is that if the situation permits, she is to refer to me as Sir. This is of course depending on who is within earshot. Last night while I directed her, I gave a couple subtle hints to have her use this word. However, she did not. I did not make any suggestion or rule that this was expected so I am not going to take any corrective measures, however, in the future, I may have to do just that.

I thoroughly enjoyed the whole experience, and plan on doing it again in the near future! And if things go well with my work, we may end up having that first meeting some time very soon!

"There is nothing either good or bad, but thinking makes it so."

- Shakespeare, from Hamlet

Tuesday's child is full of grace.

Sooooo, conversation with b has turned to "when" we meet, from "if" we meet! I have the green light on posting naughty details regarding our conversations, and meetings. Also, depending on what she chooses to be the lesser of two evils, I may have some smut photos to post! I gave her the option to either pose topless outside in this wintery frostiness for a photo for my personal viewing pleasure, or, to take 2 photos that are anonymous enough for blog posting, but still feature her gorgeous naked breasts, and another, that I will keep as a surprise!

In our conversations, b has expressed interest in a couple training regimes I'd like to implement. The first is anal training. she has told me she enjoyed the little bit of anal play she has experienced, and if she is to be my little one I'd like to have her ready and willing to offer her ass to me whenever I want to take it.

The second is deep throat training. I do thoroughly enjoy oral, and I'd love to grab on to b's long hair and fuck her mouth. And as much as I do enjoy gagging, the puking....not so much. Lol, so, if things go as planned, we are going to set up some daily exercises to help with these two things.

There are some other things we've talked about that may be explored. Bathroom control, and perhaps removal of that being a private act. Orgasm denial and control, I think having the say on when and how and where she cums will be wonderful! The other thing is blogging. Not mine, but she has a blog as well, and I may have her post a little more often. Its been a month! I think something needs to be done there! Lol.

I really hope I'm not getting ahead of myself with any of this, and if our first meeting goes well, I hope things work out well.

b also has some wardrobe instructions for our first meeting, and she has already told me she won't be following them all! We've also agreed that not following these instructions to the letter will result in a spanking! So, I have a pretty good suspicion that she's gonna end up bare bottomed over my knee in the near future as well!

"Nobody succeeds beyond his or her wildest expectations unless he or she begins with some wild expectations."

? - Ralph Charell

I wanna shoot, shoo-oo-oo-oo-oot the whole, day, down...

So my conversations with b have been getting more interesting and fun by the second. And if I'm reading things right, I may end up having this adorable young lady bottoms up in the near future!

As much as I would like to post about some of the naughtier things we've spoken about, I have made the decision to wait for her permission to post regarding "us".

I will say, that if things end up heading the direction I hope they do, my little corner of the web will no longer be smut free! Woot woot! Lol. Nothin like some pics of a freshly paddled bottom to spice up the ol blog eh?

Well, I think its finally time to saw some logs here, gonna need my energy to continue the playful banter with b tomorrow! Lol, I have a feeling this girl is going to need my full and undivided attention, she's quick, and witty. And I sense a bratty side lurking not to far away....

"If you can make a girl laugh - you can make her do anything."

- Marilyn Monroe