I've been suffering people. I have been having a pretty sad excuse for a kinklife. I haven't given a spanking or beating of any kind in WAY too long. I've got the kink withdrawl shakes..... :(
Living vicariously through other people's kinklife has been discovered to be a unsatisfying way to live. I gotta get me some spanky goodness! Any takers? Lol
Soooo.....what's new? What's up in the kink world? Any exciting developments?
Ttyl!
J
It got me to thinking about my own experiences as a Dom, and as much as I feel like I am "experienced", there are a lot of things I've never tried. As far as this particular post goes, I'm gonna stick to implements.
So, first a list of items that I HAVE used and some that I really like in particular.
My very fave implement, to begin the list, is the dreaded wooden spoon. This, in my opinion, is nearly the perfect implement. Reasons? Well, first of all it stings. Lol, the right wooden spoon can invoke that bottom shaking panic at the realization of how much something so innocuous can cause so much bloody sting! Its got that Top friendly wielding factor, as its easy to use, without much effort being put in can still reap fantastic bottom squirming results. Its an implement that can be found in nearly every home in Canada, they're cheap, easy to find, and readily available. And yet, you'd think with the sting the right one can create, they'd be impossible to find. Love 'em!
Other wooden toys I've used - hairbrushes, bathbrushes, wooden dowels, paddles etc. All wonderful.
Leather - belts, straps, tawses, paddles, etc.. I know some people prefer leather because its got that more building burn as opposed to the stinginess that wood provides.
Other - lexan rods, rubber paddles and straps, thin metal snappy sticks (pull back and let go for a snappy red mark, great for creating artwork!) all yummy and fun.
Now some of the things I wanna try that I've never had the chance to....
Wood - Birch rods, switches, rattan canes, etc.. All very European, and with the many wooded areas I live near, you'd think birches and switches would be used way more often!
Other - Marionette(what are these?) lexan paddles, whips, single-tails, floggers(I have used one flogger, but only once)....
How about you, readers? What's your fave? No choosing the "hand" we all like it! Its a cop out answer! What are some you've never tried that you'd like to?
Looking forward to your responses peeps!
J
The main reason is, the bloody writers over at http://voiceinthecorner.wordpress.com/. They're absolutely incredible! I've been following the "Lizzy Baines" series, but they're coming a little far apart, so I had a peek around the site and discovered the "Angela" series. Srsly you guys, I am starting to think I may have some kind of compulsive masturbation disorder. Those stories are absolutely amazing. I can't help but get all dreamy at the thought of getting to be in a situation like "David." Mmmmm
I'm wondering, what medium does it for you? I'm partial to movies, and pics are good, but they don't seem to stimulate the way a well written story can. The right writer draws me in, and I just get lost in the spanking fantasy dream land.
One of the very first places I remember exploring on the web, when I was just a young guy trying to make sense of my spanko desires was "Laura's Spanking Corner" I'm not sure if its even still around, but I gotta say, as a teen, living at my parents house, I spent many a sneaky night, on our old ass Pentium 120, impatiently waiting for our 28.8 dial up modem to load up pages there....
Lol, now that I've effectively dated myself, what do you all remember about discovering spanking? I remember being even younger, before the birth of the internet, and discovering a stash of my dad's naughty magazines. Now, this was a gold mine for any 13 year old boy, first discovering his sexuality. But one pictorial in particular stands out. It was "Club International Magazine" I believe, and the pictorial wasn't anything too out of the ordinary, except for one small thing. There was a spanking part. The pictorial showed a muscular male farm hand working in a barn, and after a day of riding, a buxom brunette lady enters the scene, still sporting her equestrian gear. She was quite rude to the farm hand, and after one particular comment, he decides he's had enough. Her backside is quickly bared, with much protest, and he proceeds to swat her bare bottom with his hand, then her riding crop. Needless to say, after a short time, the young lady is feeling quite sorry, and she makes it up to him by first pulling his cock from his pants and using her mouth to express her apology. Soon after they fuck, and the last part of the story implies that should she get out of line again, he'll not hesitate to repeat the lesson.
I have to say, I must have jerked off to those 7 or 8 pages, over a hundred times. As I got older I discovered small passages in books, and my realization of my interest in spanking was fully realized with the birth of the internet. Any particularly strong memories from your past that you'd like to share?
Tata for now!
J
Ok! All better now! As we wander away from the graveyard of dead blogs, I wonder, did I do the right thing peeps? Should I have passed her on to someone instead of puttin 'er out of her misery? Hmmm... Oh well!
I'm wondering if they call this long weekend "labor day long weekend" because a lot of us are still forced to work...lol, the industry I work in is one of those where there is no such thing as "the weekend." And this time of year is always full of anticipation, and preparation. Winter is the "busy season" in the oil patch, and all the oil companies, and service outfits are gearing up for a busy one. The last couple years have been a rough go. With the recession having its way with us, and the prices of oil and natural gas plummeting like a stone, the industry has been a place wrought with layoffs, and dismal predictions of the future. But, things seem to be FINALLY turning around. All the service companies are on a hiring spree, and the projections for this winter are positive, not fucking crazy rediculous as they were in years past, but at least looking up for the first time in over 2 years. As busy as I've been, things are gonna get even busier.
I'm so incredibly excited for the end of this weekend....why you ask? Well....padme and Master Anakin over at http://darkside-journey.blogspot.com/ are going to busy as kinky little bees this weekend! You've seen the initial pics, of a bit of play time testing out the toys I sent. Well, there's more to come! And....a special little treat just for me! *Squee!* sorry folks, I can't share the video I'll be gettin, cause I'm hoping its gonna be a little longer, and also, its probably going to show some very intimate scenes....*drools*..... Padme and I have been chatting, and it would seem that we share a mutual crush on eachother! (yes, I'm finally willing to admit that I find her fucking sexy, and I fantasize about having my way with her!) Thank god for poly! Lol. Her Master, Mr. Lord Vader is a pretty freakin cool cat, and besides being a very mean and sadistic guy, is also a man after my own heart, as he finds it a turn on to know his little, well trained slave is being punished and used by other people. I've recently started to discover that I must have the poly gene as well, realizing that I get turned on at the thought of a person I'm playing with being used by someone else too...who woulda thunk?
Well, its time to head to work now, so, I'll catch ya'll on the flip side!
J
J
